When I Came Out

When I came out I sent my friends a snapchat of a closet and then another one of me walking out. I think they got the idea.

When I came out, my mother told me not to label myself. She said that I wouldn’t be able to escape the label, citing incidents from 6 years ago, when I was half my age. She also says I’ll change my mind. She says 12 is too young to be asexual. I’m 13 now and I want to come out again, but every time I try I get lectures.

When I came out as gay to my close friend, he really understood. Supported me, and is a super trustworthy person to talk to. Slowly telling all of my other friend now, and I’m much happier! Easier than I expected.

When I came out, I told one of my really good friends that I wasn’t sure about the feelings. She went to her boyfriend, and they both told everyone in the school that I was a Lesbian. So a 9th grader walking into high school for the first time had no friends; people would laugh at me, stare at me. Three years later I have made friends with people who accept me. I am now in a happy relationship.

When I came out, I was up late at night, thinking through it and before I knew it, I posted my coming out on Facebook and Twitter. I cried the whole night, talking to friends and family. I’ve only gotten positive responses, which surprised me because my whole family is religious, except for me.

When I decided to come out I emailed my mom. She called me into the kitchen and I broke down in tears. She later spoke to my dad and told me that it doesn’t matter I’m gay and she still loves me for who I am. 🙂

When I came out, my friends all fully accepted me. A while later, I got my first girlfriend. Her parents found out about us and told my parents. My mom was okay with it but my dad completely shut me out. My girlfriend and I are still together despite what they say, and I won’t see her until school starts again. But hey, I have to stand up for who I am and who I love.

When I came out to my friends, I was so nervous I almost puked. I was out as “bicurious” already, but “lesbian” just felt much more serious and final. When I finally spit it out, they all told me they loved and support me no matter what– worth it!

When I came out to my best friend, who I liked, I told her I was lesbian. She said she was questioning, so I did mini backflips in my head. Turns out she’s straight and I’m gay, and though she says she accepts me, she doesn’t treat me the same as before. Though it’s hard, you can get through this, and you will find people who accept you unconditionally.

When I came out it was to my cousin and my best friend. My best friend was very surprised but she accepts me now and my cousin said that she loves me no matter what. I’m not out to my Muslim parents yet because I know they’ll react badly…