When I came out to my mum as bisexual several years ago, she answered, “Isn’t everyone a little bit bi?”, which I took to be a good sign… but I don’t think she really believed me until I told her recently that I was dating a girl. Now she is clinging to how I seem to have had meaningful relationships with boys also. Dad took it very weirdly because it was a shock to him, and while he hasn’t been mean about it in any way, he’s been distinctly cold ever since.
Story #1609
When I came out to my mom I was 14. I told her that I like girls but I am still confused about my sexuality. She said she will always love me and it doesn’t matter if I like a girl or a guy. After that I told her that my “BFF” is my girlfriend. She said, “I thought so.” I am so happy. A weight has been lifted off my chest. (F/14)
Story #1608
When I came out as bisexual it was to a pansexual friend instead of my best friend because she was more trustworthy and she was part of LGBTQ+. She took it well as expected. A week later I told my best friend; he also, which I thank the world for, took it awesomely but as always teased me! He came out as bisexual a week later to me. This made me happy because little does he know I like him. (M/Bisexual)
Story #1607
When I came out I was on video chat to my parents. I came out as bi to my mum about 6 months prior, but came out to my stepdad last week. He took it very badly and doesn’t accept it. My mum does, though. My dad doesn’t know yet, but all my friends do.
Story #1606
When I came out, my parents flipped out. I was told it was a phase, I was too young, I had no idea what I was talking about, and it really hurt. But we’ve talked so much more in the past few months, and my mom is really trying to understand. We’ve been to an event down in Provo, she’s begun letting me go to GSIA meetings, and has even considered letting me cut my hair. When I first came out, I truly regretted it — but I don’t anymore.
Story #1605
When I came out I had a very good experience. I’m a divorced guy who came out late in life. I posted it on Facebook! I was terrified about what the response would be but I had at least 18 people contact me and tell me how proud they were of me.
Story #1604
When I came out to my parents they were completely mad and disappointed. They are now always ready to yell at me. A few years later I came out to my friend and she accepted me just for who I was. It’s been hard but I am a lesbian and no amount of yelling can change that.
Story #1603
When I came out to my mom, she said she was okay with it and that she suspected it anyway. Despite that, I feel regretful for telling her. I don’t know why. (M/17/Gay)
Story #1602
When I came out, it wasn’t really a coming out. I thought I was bisexual, and I bought a pride bracelet. My mom flat out asked me if I was gay. I denied it but later confessed to having dated a girl. My mom doesn’t think bisexuals exist.
Story #1601
When I came out, I cried. I had a panic attack. They told me it was just a phase and that I’m only 15 years old, that I shouldn’t be worrying about it. I hate myself for coming out to them. I’m so sorry I had to be this way, Mom and Dad.