When I came out to my cousin brother, we were watching a show and a character came out as bi. I said, “Same” without thinking, and as soon as I realised I had come out I burst out crying. He was really accepting and sweet about the whole thing. I couldn’t stop shaking till about half an hour later, though. (F/16/Bisexual)
Story #1723
When I came out I was 12 years old at the time and had come out as bi just a few months earlier. I spent the entire summer between sixth and seventh grade just questioning my sexuality, and it was great having such a supportive group of friends helping me discover who I was. Fast forward to today, where I can’t tell anyone in high school because of my fear of being bullied. So far only my middle school friends, my little brother, and some teachers know, but I can’t wait for the day when I can be my gay self in front of anyone. (F/16/Lesbian)
Story #1722
When I came out to my friend, I told her I was bi-curious. She had a brother who is bisexual, so I knew I could trust her. I slipped her a note in class, and she just nodded her head. I know I’m full-out bisexual now, and I told most of my friends (they’re very accepting). I don’t tell on telling my parents anytime soon, though. (F/11/Bisexual)
Story #1721
When I came out I first told my friend (who everyone thinks is gay). I wrote him a whole front and back letter, but he only read the first two words saying, “I’m Bisexual” and gave me back the letter like I asked. He said he didn’t care. And now, a few months later, I plan on telling my friends when I get back to school from winter break. But I don’t plan on telling my family for a while. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #1720
When I came out, I basically tried to say as little as possible. My best friend is from an anti-lgbt religion, and while I knew she would be happy for me, after about an hour of “Are you sure?” and trying to explain that yes, I liked guys, I gave up trying and left it at “I have a girlfriend now.” She was super sweet, even though she seemed confused by the concept of bisexuality, and very supportive. I ended up coming out to my parents with just the girlfriend part as well because I was worried that my mom would keep trying to get me a boyfriend (and they are also religious). I still feel weird about it because I basically just let them all assume that I’m a lesbian, even though I’m really careful not to call myself one because I’m not “fully gay” and don’t even label myself gay because of it… (F/22/Bisexual)
Story #1719
When I came out it was to my friends and little brother. It was Christmas evening and we had just finished hanging out and exchanging gifts, and as they were leaving they were talking about girls or something and then one of them asked if I was straight. I looked at them blankly, not knowing what to say, but I knew I couldn’t say yes ’cause it would be obvious I was unsure or lying. Then I said, “I guess I’m coming out now.” They were all surprised but really accepting. They acted like they didn’t care but in a good way. I was really happy that night and fell asleep with a smile on my face. But the best part is that I don’t have to lie or be uncomfortable when they ask if I like this girl or if I think this girl is cute or something. (M/19/Gay)
Story #1718
When I came out it was to a theatre group chat. I basically said, “Guys, I found Narnia!” And someone asked “Where?” And so I said, “In the closet. Surprise, I’m gay!” And everyone was really accepting! Still haven’t told my family though, haha. (M/15/Gay)
Story #1717
When I came out I was 14 in 7th grade and I came out to my best friend. My parents get hints here and there, so I figure they know but it’s kinda hard to tell my dad. My mom and everyone else in my family knows but my dad is another story. He is traditional; he only believes in man and woman, but I like girls, have since I was a baby, and I’m proud of who I am and who I’ve become after last year. I just hope I can find someone to love me for me, especially my family. (F/15/Lesbian)
Story #1716
When I came out on the 22nd to my parents, they didn’t accept that I was gay. They blamed it on “hormones” and that I’m “only 15.” It really made me sad and is still hurting me; living a lie and hating myself is not fun. I wish they were more accepting. [I’ve told a friend at school, a cousin, a sibling, and 2 other people irl] (M/15/Gay)
Story #1715
When I came out I was at camp and realized I liked a girl. I sent my friend a letter about her. When I got back I was really nervous to see her reaction. Thankfully she accepted me and made me feel more certain about myself. (F/12/Bi)