When I came out I first said I was gay (I didn’t like the term ‘lesbian’) to most of my friends but I quickly felt uncomfortable with how I was labeling myself. I later found out that I am polysexual (for girls and most non-binary genders) and non-binary. I told about six people about being poly and that went pretty well (most got mixed up with polyamorous tho). I still haven’t told anyone about being enby though because I hang out with the few enby people at school and one of their friends keeps constantly getting misgendered even after repetitively correcting them. I do plan to tell my best friend — who I know will accept me for me — tomorrow or some time during the school week. Talking about it on here is helping me a lot even though it is anonymous. Have a great, gay day! (Non-binary/Polysexual)
Story #2019
When I came out to my parents for the first time, as asexual, I was 14. They’re very cishet-normative, but they’ve been trying to be very supportive. Tonight, I put a letter on their bed saying I am nonbinary. I don’t know if they’ve read it yet. Tomorrow, I’m
going to come out to my younger brother. I’m scared, but I’m also tired of pretending to be something I’m not. I hope they respond well. (Nonbinary/16/Aroace, agender)
Story #1997
When I came out I was in 8th or 9th grade and I had told my family that I was gay, and then I finally figured out that I was bisexual one or two years later. I never thought that I would be bisexual because I was never taught about being gay and bisexual at home or at school. (Non-binary/18/Bisexual)
Story #1994
When I came out it was kinda awkward because I was just telling my friend stuff and eventually they wanted to talk about crushes. I just wanted to spill the beans. It gets so tiring at a point. Anyway, they talked about their crush and then I told mine, who’s the same gender as mine assigned because I’m not out genderly(??) and they were pretty surprised. Supportive though 🙂 (NB/15/Demi)
Story #1992
When I came out it was at pride and I was scared sh*tless. I first came out to my best friend over text and she was extremely supportive. I have lots of other LGBTQ+ friends and when I told them to refer to me as they/them they were all supportive. I have yet to come out to my family and other friends, and I am scared sh*tless to do so. I just hope that they have the same response as my friends. I don’t think my parents know/believe in being NB so I hope that I can stay sane as they refer to me as she/her for the time being. (Non-binary/14/Bisexual)
Story #1948
When I came out my mom was so accepting of me. I was terrified of rejection when I had forgotten how much she loved and cared for me. My friends are also so incredibly wonderful and I’m super lucky to have them. It gets better, and it will be okay. Much love and good vibes (Non-binary/17/Pan/bi)
Story #1932
When I came out I told my mom I was gay when she was drunk. She told me I was too young to know, so now every year on National Coming Out Day I come out to her again until she accepts me. My friends kinda just knew and I’m hiding my girlfriend from my mom. (Non-binary/14/Gay [as an umbrella term])
Story #1924
When I came out, the first thing I came out as was gay. I was having my friend guess who my crush was, and eventually, I said, “What would you say if it was a girl?” She just said, “Cool” and that gave me the courage to later come out to other friends. Eventually, I got a girlfriend and she helped me come out to the rest of my friends and I also helped her come out to hers. I then realized that I wanted to come out to some of my friends as non-binary, so I sent them an email and they were super accepting and friendly! (Non-binary/Queer)
Story #1916
When I came out I told my bio mom and my foster parents. I was nonbinary and pan. My bio father wouldn’t understand nonbinary so I said I was trans since I’ll soon be on T. He cut me off. Though it hurt I’m happy with my decision. I’m just contemplating if I’m nonbinary or MtF. (Nonbinary, MtF/17/Pansexual)
Story #1905
When I came out, I had been dating this girl for a month, and my mother decided to check my messages (she was paying for my phone)… and she saw my text messages for the last 4 days. She was supporting and caring about it… howeeeeveeeer, my mother had me break up with her and I explained to my girlfriend what happened and she understood. I’m not allowed to have my phone back till I have my mom’s trust (I’ve been distant). (F/12/Lesbian/Nonbinary(I have not told my mom yet TwT))