When I came out it was a few days before Thanksgiving sitting with my parents at the dinner table. My mom immediately told me not to invite any boyfriends over to her house ever and my dad said not to dress up in any costumes. Of course the whole holiday was ruined by the argument but I got a weight off my shoulders and realized that we have a lot of work to do together as a family. I never knew homophobia was a problem for them until I came out and the whole experience was a huge surprise because I thought they would be much more accepting.
Story #1216
When I came out to my brother, he looked at me, started to laugh, and than he said: “I’m glad you’re just gay. First I thought you wanted to say you’re vegetarian. If that would be the case, I’d beat the sh*t out of you, but it’s okay that you’re not straight.” I was 16 back then. (M/22)
Story #1208
When I came out it was to my best friend and she said, “Dude, I’ve known for like a year.” Now I’ve come out at school and not my family, it’s been hard keeping my school and home-life separate. (M/13/Gay)
Story #1209
When I came out to my identical twin (17 M), he was driving me home from my water polo game. I thought about telling him and immediately had a HUGE panic attack. He pulled over and asked me what was up, and as soon as I said, “I have something to tell you,” he just said, “You’re gay, right?” and when I nodded, he hugged me and comforted me for a good 20 minutes. I love him.
Story #1204
When I came out to my dad, I was already 33 years old and a Roman Catholic priest. A week later, I told my brothers. A month later, I posted a coming out photo on Facebook. Years later, I’m still a priest and an out and proud advocate for LGBT+ rights.
Story #1200
When I came out, my dad walked out of the room and my mom told me that I should pray and talk to my pastor at church to find out why I’m gay. Later that night, my dad came back in my room and told me he still loves me and he needs time to adjust, as well as my mom and grandmother. Everyone said they weren’t 100% surprised but now I feel awkward even being in the house with them. But honestly I’m glad that I don’t have to hide anything anymore. (M/18/Gay)
Story #1187
When I came out I was drunk at my friend’s house. We were playing truth or dare and I told him I didn’t like girls but boys. He was surprised to say the least but he didn’t support me. We still don’t talk to each other. Now I’m scared to tell my best friend. I’m pretty sure he will accept me but I’m not willing to take the chance and lose another friend.
Story #1186
When I came out, my mom cried. I told her over a year ago, and she started crying. She went on about how she wanted grandkids, and basically told me not to tell anyone. I’m gonna come out to her and her side of the family again soon. (M/15/Gay)
Story #1184
When I came out to my father, he told me I was lucky because women were such a pain in the ass…
Story #1183
When I came out to my best friend, she was totally supportive. She told me that she loves me no matter what and will always be there for me. (M/13/Bisexual)