When I came out I was 11. I told the whole family at once and most of them didn’t accept me. My dad acted aggressive for a few days before assuming it’s just a phase and I’ll get over it someday. I also told most of my friends, and they all accepted me. (M/16/Gay)
Story #1804
When I came out to my close friends on FaceTime they all accepted me for who I was, but the thing is I told them that I was bi, and I’m not really sure that I have any sort of feelings towards females. I think that I might be gay but I’m scared to come out again. I wish I could tell my family but I’m too scared to do that and they’re pretty religious. I really do hope I find myself. I have a really big crush on this boy who might be bi or gay but I’m don’t have the courage to tell him about my feelings. 😕 (M/15/Gay?)
Story #1797
When I came out, I was 13 and I decided to bake cupcakes just to write “I’m Gay” on one of them in frosting and to give it to my parents. They were confused as to why it was written there, then asked me the question, “Are you gay?” I then said, “Yes” and they were supportive of it. Probably one of the proudest moments of my life. (M/15/Gay)
Story #1796
When I came out, it was a few days ago. My parents are now forcing me to renounce what I said and force me further into the closet. I thought that coming out would lift a weight off my shoulders but it just got worse. (M/Gay)
Story #1795
When I came out… I was super scared of how my parents would react. At first they reassured me that I was still their son and they loved me no matter what. Thing is, my family is religious, so once they actually realized I was serious… that’s when the negative speech started. I was disowned, kicked out at age 18, and I am now just trying to reconnect with my family. I hope no one else has to live through something like I did. (M/20/Gay)
Story #1792
When I came out to my girlfriend, she was completely understanding and knew that this was for me and all she had was love in her heart for me. I’m planning on going home tonight to see my mom so I can tell her. I’m scared but knowing that she’s my best friend, I think she’s going to support me and love me even more for not lying about who I am anymore. (M/20/Gay)
Story #1791
When I came out I was 18, still a high school senior, and was very popular. I knew I was different and it scared me. I told my sisters and mother. In the moment it felt right but I soon found out it was a horrible choice at the moment. They don’t look at me the same anymore and I feel alone. They punished me by not letting me talk to friends and wanting to isolate me. They want me to forget who I am. I can’t live like this anymore. I feel trapped and alone. (M/18/Bi)
Story #1790
When I came out I told my best friend. He acted like nothing happened for a while until it came up again and I realised he acted like nothing happened because he didn’t care that I was gay, at all. Other friends and most of family were accepting also. (M/20/Gay)
Story #1786
When I came out the first time, it was to my best friend. He was cool about it, but it got weird at first. I’m an affectionate guy; I love hugs and being close to people. After I came out I was scared that doing those things to him would make him uncomfortable. When he realized that I was acting differently, he held me and said that me being bi didn’t change the fact he loved my hugs. (M/19/Bisexual)
Story #1784
When I came out, I was in tears with my best friend and admitted I was gay after trying to date a girl for 8 years. She accepted me and helped me to come out to my family. My mum always jokes with me. But my dad recently told me that he didn’t like to have a gay in the family and won’t leave me alone. (M/20/Gay)