When I came out, I was devastated to see my dad ignore me. On the other hand, my mom reacted with joy and happiness; she accepts me for who I am. I wasn’t surprised that my friends and peers would support me — they were always supportive of me. Yet, I feel like I am slowly losing my dad, and, oddly enough, I am not afraid of that. I am not willing to sacrifice my happiness for anyone or anything. (M/18/Bisexual)
Story #1829
When I came out to my brother he was surprisingly supportive. He said no matter what, he’ll always have my back. Next step is to come to my religious Muslim parents. Don’t know when or if ever I’ll be able to come out to them. (M/27/Gay)
Story #1827
When I came out it was to my freshman year college roommate. It was such a weight off my shoulders because he came out to me as bi first! He helped me build the courage to tell my family and all besides my dad accepted me and my mom is very supportive of me. I’m finally able to live freely and for those of you who are still closeted, stay strong and know that there are resources all around you! (M/20/Gay)
Story #1824
When I came out, it was completely unexpected. The week before, I had told myself that I wouldn’t necessarily come out—I really don’t enjoy nerve-wracking situations—but if I were asked about my sexuality, I would be honest with people. I was talking about throwing rainbow cookies in the air for fun, and someone asked if I was gay. I said yes, and it was a huge relief from the pressure and loneliness I had been feeling beforehand. Now I am out at school, and my parents could really care less what I do, other than that I am happy. To everyone out there nervous to come out, you are valid, and if the friend/parent/other person you are coming out to doesn’t accept you, we are all with you today and forever. (M/16/Gay)
Story #1817
When I came out to my best girl friend, I stuttered and it took me five minutes to tell. But boy, I was so happy. I come from a very religious region of the Netherlands, and everybody who I told was happy to hear it and they all said, ”Alright, we still love you, but we knew it for a long time.” The fifth person I came out to was my preacher, and his words were beautiful: ”It isn’t God who hates gay people, He loves them, it’s the people who don’t understand Him.” That’s why I am still a Christian gay and even my very religious parents accepted me. A month ago I came out to my best friends in three seconds. It was very simple now. (M/17/Gay)
Story #1810
When I came out I wanted to show my best friend (who I had fallen in love with) that it was okay and nobody would care. Everyone always knew so it was no surprise to them. Unfortunately, he still couldn’t accept who he was and now he still lives in denial. Me on the other hand, I’m happy as ever and I’m finding out who I am more everyday. Be who you want to be 🙂 (M/23/Gay)
Story #1808
When I came out I was 11. I told the whole family at once and most of them didn’t accept me. My dad acted aggressive for a few days before assuming it’s just a phase and I’ll get over it someday. I also told most of my friends, and they all accepted me. (M/16/Gay)
Story #1804
When I came out to my close friends on FaceTime they all accepted me for who I was, but the thing is I told them that I was bi, and I’m not really sure that I have any sort of feelings towards females. I think that I might be gay but I’m scared to come out again. I wish I could tell my family but I’m too scared to do that and they’re pretty religious. I really do hope I find myself. I have a really big crush on this boy who might be bi or gay but I’m don’t have the courage to tell him about my feelings. 😕 (M/15/Gay?)
Story #1797
When I came out, I was 13 and I decided to bake cupcakes just to write “I’m Gay” on one of them in frosting and to give it to my parents. They were confused as to why it was written there, then asked me the question, “Are you gay?” I then said, “Yes” and they were supportive of it. Probably one of the proudest moments of my life. (M/15/Gay)
Story #1796
When I came out, it was a few days ago. My parents are now forcing me to renounce what I said and force me further into the closet. I thought that coming out would lift a weight off my shoulders but it just got worse. (M/Gay)