When I came out as pansexual I did it to my mom as “I’m gay but kinda not.” She says it’s OK but she’s homophobic in reality. I don’t use feminine stuff but just even a ring pisses her off. Luckily I’ve got a supportive sister and friend instead and that’s all I need! ×) (M/Pansexual)
Story #2208
When I came out, I asked my close friend to meet me and she agreed. So I picked her up and sat in Indomart (Indonesian version of 7 Eleven). She knew that I wanted to talk about a serious matter. I couldn’t say it, so I gave her my audio recorder and I came out. She was very supportive and she also came out as bisexual. (M/18/Gay)
Story #2199
When I came out to my parents (yesterday) I was shaking so bad. I couldn’t look to my dad’s eyes cause I thought he would take some time to accept it. Turns out they both we’re really supportive and just want me to be happy. Now my mom is scared of the things I might go through someday and I don’t actually know how to calm her down. Now I feel awesome. I know that I can always count on them. 🇧🇷 (M/18/Bi)
Story #2196
When I came out to my parents, I hadn’t even planned on doing it. It was actually my father who asked me. I tried to avoid the question and it took me about 5 minutes to finally answer: yes… They were like: “Oh, ok… Why didn’t you tell us before? We’re your parents and we’re gonna love you no matter what”. So I started crying and they hugged me, saying how much they loved me. (M/Gay)
Story #2194
When I came out I at first told my friends, then a girl in my class said that she was too. I felt really happy that someone other than me knew what pan was. So then my parents found out. I did not tell them. So they did not talk to me for over 2 weeks. Then after the 2nd week was over, my dad told me that this was just a phase. But I showed him a pic of my ex-boyfriend and he said, “Oh wow,” then left it at that. (M/17/Pansexual)
Story #2191
When I came out I was really scared because I go to a Catholic school. Most my friends were supportive. I told them name (Ethan) and my pronouns (he/him). They respect me and my choices even though I get the occasional “Why can’t you just stay a girl?” Right now I’m attending online group therapy sessions, which really helps. Hopefully today I have the courage and strength to ask my dad for a chest binder (wish me luck🤠) (Male/14/FtM)
Story #2181
When I came out to my parents, my dad had high blood pressure for three days and my mother said I was making a selfish choice. (M/25/Bi)
Story #2171
When I came out I was 16, and I told my female friend on her birthday since I wanted her to know my true “presence” as one of her “presents.” After coming out to a few more people a couple months later on National Coming Out Day (October 11th), I got the courage to submit this yearbook quote: “I started high school with straight A’s… now I’m not even straight! I’m still me, though!” I have yet to get a negative reaction, and I have come out to bunch of people at college already. (M/17/Not straight)
Story #2169
When I came out, I was just 15, a sophomore in high school, and had been hiding since 7th grade. I became really close to an online friend and felt she would be the best person to tell first, so I said that I had to tell her something, and her response was “You’re gay?” I spent the next few minutes deciding whether or not I really wanted to do it and eventually said yes. She was really supportive, which inspired me to come out to my irl friends, and they all said “I knew” or “I’ve been waiting for this forever!” I was overwhelmed with support and felt so happy to be able to tell them without fear. A few months later, my mom asked pretty bluntly and I just nodded. I then learned that 2 of my 3 siblings were also gay, and was so happy I had support from my family. I haven’t told my dad or extended family yet, but I plan to eventually. (M/16/Gay)
Story #2163
When I came out it was a normal school lunch. My friend asked me what I think my sexuality is. I told her I’m not really sure but I think I’m gay. I come from a VERY accepting town (most people are LGBTQ+ or support them) and my friend already had two other gay friends so I already knew she was accepting. I felt so good about it and even told my other friends later that day. (M/13/Gay)