When I came out to my friends, none of them were surprised as I’d always been the token cishet and we all know how that goes. My parents asked me if I was confused as I’d been going through a breakup, and that honestly really hurt (although they did say they still love and accept me). When I told my grandparents, though, the first thing they said was “You’re still our (name)” and then “We just want you to be happy and feel like yourself” and that meant so much to me. (F/19/Bisexual)
Story #2326
When I came out it took a while for my mom to understand, but once she did, she was supportive. Not only that, but she found out that she’s aroace too! Small world… (F/18/Aroace)
Story #2323
When I came out I was 25 years old and had just broke up with what was to be my last boyfriend (I tried so hard to be straight for so long). I had just felt so unhappy that one day I had a conversation with myself: “You’re not happy and you could be. I’m gay.” A week later I came out to friends and family and haven’t looked back. (F/30/Gay/lesbian)
Story #2320
When I came out to my best friend, I wanted to make sure my parents couldn’t see, so I sent her a letter through Animal Crossing. She later texted me saying, and I quote, “Aw I’m so happy for you! I completely support you.” This was two days ago, and I’ve never felt better. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #2319
When I came out my friend was complaining about being left out of secrets. I told her only one person knew my crush and that it didn’t matter, I didn’t like her anymore anyways. And she just goes, “Her? HER? HER?!” growing increasingly more excited while I grew redder and redder. Pretty sure she thinks I’m a lesbian. (F/14/Bisexual)
Story #2318
When I came out to my friend, I said, “Personally, I think my strongest muscle is my bisexual muscle,” and she just kinda stared at me for a couple seconds because: 1. We were in a Catholic school, and 2. I’m apparently the Least Likely To Be Gay person out of our friend group (she’s bisexual too) and now we make puns together. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #2316
When I came out I made a game plan in case anything went wrong. I said that I would tell my best friend (who is a lesbian) the first time I could get her alone. I walk through the gates to the school and there she is. Alone. I ramble for maybe about five minutes before actually telling her and the first thing she says is, “That’s great, [insert name here]!” It felt so good. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #2315
When I came out to my parents, I knew they wouldn’t have a problem with it, because they already knew that several of my friends were queer. When I went to the CSD in a city nearby (which they knew about), I picked up some flyers which explained my sexual orientation and generally different genders and orientations. The next time my parents and sister visited me, I gave them the flyers saying I realized we never really talked about my sexual orientation and it’s probably obvious, but in case they didn’t know yet, I’m asexual. My little sister took the opportunity to tell our parents that she isn’t straight either. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2313
When I came out for the first time, it was to some people from my year on a school trip. When some of us were talking in the evening, a boy jokingly asked what type of sex I prefer and I answered with “None, actually, considering that I’m asexual”. That was the first time I ever said my sexual orientation out aloud, as I never had to tell my friends because they simply knew. He was just like, “Duh, I know,” and we kept talking about some other stuff. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2312
When I came out as asexual to one of my closest friends, she stopped looked at me and said, “Ace sisters!” It made me so happy, especially since we always thought I was straight and she was an ally to the community. I’m going to tell my family at Christmas, will make more updates then!! (F/13/Asexual)