When I Came Out

When I came out as bisexual to my mother, she laughed and called it “a phase”, saying she’d get me some counselling. Since then, I’ve realized that I am actually genderfluid, as well as panromantic and graysexual. I have come out to most, if not all, of my friends, including the religious ones. My close guy friend even offered to give me some of his boy clothes for my boy days. I have yet to come out again to my family, but I’m working up the courage to do it.

When I came out as asexual to my mom and sister… it didn’t go so great. My mom basically told me I was too young to know (I was 20) and my sister said that it was weird and it didn’t matter to anyone unless you were dating them. So I won’t be mentioning that to them ever again, but I have a lot of supportive friends at college which helps.

When I came out to my internet friends I was shaking out of fear because I was afraid they would hate me, but it turns out that two of them are bi and now we are planing on making a queer army.

When I came out to my brother, it was a lot different than I had pictured. I had been telling my homophobic parents I have been dating a girl. My brother got suspicious so he confronted me about it. All in one afternoon I said I was bi, had been talking to a guy, then finally came out. I asked if he hated me; he gave me a hug. My parents still don’t know.

When I came out, I told my older sister who was at college through text and then had a 2-hour phone conversation with her about it later. I can tell that she is uncomfortable with it, but she still loves and accepts me. I’ve also told 4 close friends, a man from my church that I deeply trust, and now my little sister. I’ve gotten nothing but love and support and I’m very grateful.

When I came out it was first to my brother at 1 o’clock New Year’s Day. He was very supportive so I then told my two closest friends. They were both fine with it but my best friend told me I shouldn’t tell my parents because it might be a phase. I was about to tell them but now I don’t know….. :/

When I came out it was right after a recent breakup when my mom asked me what was wrong, and I told her my girlfriend had broken up with me. A few months later, I’m dating my beautiful best friend who helped me through that breakup. We’re happy, but rumors have been spreading about us lately and not in the good way. She recently told her parents, and they tried to convince her that she wasn’t actually into girls… it’s a bit of a 50/50 situation…

When I came out to my brother last spring, I went into his bedroom and he sat with me on his bed as I blurted out, “I’m not straight.” He asked if I liked girls and I nodded and started crying but he hugged me tight and said it’s completely okay. I’ve told all my close friends but not my parents…

When I came out, I was 13, last year, at a camp organised by my school. I told a girl I’d never met, and we are now best friends. Then, that night I told my best friend of 3 years. He said, “Ok, cool story bro. Now, are you imperial or storm cloak?”

When I came out I just hopped out of the shower feeling very refreshed. I checked my texts and my gay friend was talking to me. We had our usual political conversation, which lead to sexuality. I told him and I cried myself to sleep that night. All my friends know now (4 months later), but I’m super scared to tell my super conservative parents.