When I came out to myself I was 42. It was a relief to know why my life has been such am unhappy struggle. I doubt I will ever tell anyone else, because I have nowhere I can go and restart my life. (FtM/Asexual trans)
Story #1212
When I came out, everyone was super supportive of me being bisexual. I’ve changed my sexuality a bunch of times. But I’m still not sure if I should come out to my parents… (Genderfluid demiboy/15/Asexual panromantic)
Story #1211
When I came out to myself, it was really confusing. I have long suspected that I am queer, but I only realized that I was bi a few weeks ago. I finally understood that the reason I felt so awkward around my best friend was that I am in love with her, but I also like boys, too.
I won’t come out to my family for a few years, probably, because my parents think I’m not old enough to understand my sexuality. But I’m so glad to have accepted myself for who I am! (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #1210
When I came out, it was to my best friend. She told me her brother was gay, so it was okay. Now, I’m a 14-year-old teenage lesbian in a relationship with my best friend, and everyone in my friend circle has some attraction for the same sex.
Story #1208
When I came out it was to my best friend and she said, “Dude, I’ve known for like a year.” Now I’ve come out at school and not my family, it’s been hard keeping my school and home-life separate. (M/13/Gay)
Story #1209
When I came out to my identical twin (17 M), he was driving me home from my water polo game. I thought about telling him and immediately had a HUGE panic attack. He pulled over and asked me what was up, and as soon as I said, “I have something to tell you,” he just said, “You’re gay, right?” and when I nodded, he hugged me and comforted me for a good 20 minutes. I love him.
Story #1207
When I came out as a lesbian to my mom and dad we were watching TV. My mom said, “We’ve known that since you were four,” and my dad said, “The sky is blue. Oh, I thought we were sharing things we already know.”
Story #1206
When I came out, it was a lot easier than I expected. I was at work, and one of my coworkers — who had already disclosed she had a gay brother — popped the question. She asked it subtly, and I just replied. It’s so funny because I never expected someone I didn’t know very well to be the first one I came out to. Anyway, I am waiting to tell my family until I graduate high school. Wish me luck!
Story #1205
When I came out to myself all the pain I had secretly felt and didn’t know where it came from suddenly vanished. Two years later I came out to my family and friends and I realised that they didn’t care if I was straight or not, they just loved me anyway. (F/21/Bisexual)
Story #1204
When I came out to my dad, I was already 33 years old and a Roman Catholic priest. A week later, I told my brothers. A month later, I posted a coming out photo on Facebook. Years later, I’m still a priest and an out and proud advocate for LGBT+ rights.