When I came out, it was to two of my best friends who feigned tolerance and acceptance at the time but subsequently stopped being friends with me and told all of our mutual friends (even though I had explicitly asked for it to remain a secret). My ex-girlfriend found out and has been trying to reach me to question the fidelity of our past relationship. Now I’m not sure who knows and who doesn’t and am afraid that my parents will find out somehow, which would not be good.