When I came out today, my parents told me I have to change or my entire family (uncles, aunt, cousins, grandparents) will shun me. I tried to explain several times but all they said was I cannot be stubborn. I told them my friends have been helping me and they got mad and told me to leave those friends behind. They want me to go to therapy. I have a choice to make now, either I lose the only family I’ve ever had or I lose myself.