When I came out I was 12 years old at the time and had come out as bi just a few months earlier. I spent the entire summer between sixth and seventh grade just questioning my sexuality, and it was great having such a supportive group of friends helping me discover who I was. Fast forward to today, where I can’t tell anyone in high school because of my fear of being bullied. So far only my middle school friends, my little brother, and some teachers know, but I can’t wait for the day when I can be my gay self in front of anyone. (F/16/Lesbian)
Story #1722
When I came out to my friend, I told her I was bi-curious. She had a brother who is bisexual, so I knew I could trust her. I slipped her a note in class, and she just nodded her head. I know I’m full-out bisexual now, and I told most of my friends (they’re very accepting). I don’t tell on telling my parents anytime soon, though. (F/11/Bisexual)
Story #1721
When I came out I first told my friend (who everyone thinks is gay). I wrote him a whole front and back letter, but he only read the first two words saying, “I’m Bisexual” and gave me back the letter like I asked. He said he didn’t care. And now, a few months later, I plan on telling my friends when I get back to school from winter break. But I don’t plan on telling my family for a while. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #1720
When I came out, I basically tried to say as little as possible. My best friend is from an anti-lgbt religion, and while I knew she would be happy for me, after about an hour of “Are you sure?” and trying to explain that yes, I liked guys, I gave up trying and left it at “I have a girlfriend now.” She was super sweet, even though she seemed confused by the concept of bisexuality, and very supportive. I ended up coming out to my parents with just the girlfriend part as well because I was worried that my mom would keep trying to get me a boyfriend (and they are also religious). I still feel weird about it because I basically just let them all assume that I’m a lesbian, even though I’m really careful not to call myself one because I’m not “fully gay” and don’t even label myself gay because of it… (F/22/Bisexual)
Story #1717
When I came out I was 14 in 7th grade and I came out to my best friend. My parents get hints here and there, so I figure they know but it’s kinda hard to tell my dad. My mom and everyone else in my family knows but my dad is another story. He is traditional; he only believes in man and woman, but I like girls, have since I was a baby, and I’m proud of who I am and who I’ve become after last year. I just hope I can find someone to love me for me, especially my family. (F/15/Lesbian)
Story #1715
When I came out I was at camp and realized I liked a girl. I sent my friend a letter about her. When I got back I was really nervous to see her reaction. Thankfully she accepted me and made me feel more certain about myself. (F/12/Bi)
Story #1714
When I came out, we were playing truth or dare at lunch and one girl asked me who I liked. I liked a girl, and I was very hesitant to tell her because we weren’t very close and I was afraid she’d have a negative reaction. Eventually, I told her that it wasn’t a guy. She replied with, “Awww, that’s sweet.” She was really supportive about it, and promised not to tell anyone. (F/13/Bi)
Story #1711
When I came out it was not planned. But one night at a party a good friend of mine came to me and wanted to speak with me about something. The reason was that she thought that I had flirted with her boyfriend too much at the last parties we were together. I started laughing and told her that it was just because we were really good friends and she can be sure that it will not happen any time in the future that I am flirting with any boyfriend because I love girls. (F/19/Lesbian)
Story #1710
When I came out it was not by choice. My mom had stumbled across the messages me and my girlfriend had been sending each other. She read them all and then looked at me. She asked, “Why do you guys say I love you so much to each other?”
My response was “Because maybe I like girls and not guys.” (F/14/Lesbian)
Story #1709
When I came out I felt so relieved. I’ve finally found what’s in me and I am so happy. Took years to figured out what’s wrong with myself during all those relationships I was in and here I am, a graysexual. (F/22/Graysexual)