When I came out to my best friend we were 14. It was 3am and we were lying in my bed during a sleepover. I looked over and said, “I think I’m gay” really quietly and just started crying. She rolled over, said, “I know, I’m going to sleep.” We still laugh about it years later, especially because she just came out to me as bi. (F/18/Lesbian)
Story #1767
When I came out I texted my best friend with a message I had prewritten almost a week before. Even though I was 99% sure she would be supporting and accepting, as she herself is gay, my heart was racing and my hands were shaking. This was the first time I shared this part of myself with anyone else and when she didn’t respond for several minutes, I started to get really nervous. Finally, she responded in such an awesome way and said she would have my back. It was like a huge weight had been lifted and I felt euphoric for the rest of the night. (F/16/Asexual)
Story #1766
When I came out in 8th grade, it was to my mom. I sent her a text message saying that I was bi; we didn’t really talk about it. Eventually, I ended up going back to the closet. This year I figured out that I am lesbian and only my brother knows it. (F/17/Lesbian)
Story #1764
When I came out to a few of my yearbook friends today, I felt so relieved to be honest with them. I’ve been dropping hints for a while now, but they were still clueless. So today in class we were looking at club lists for high school and I came across an LGBT+ club and showed the others. We talked about it a little and then I said, “I should join that club.” They looked at me confused for a millisecond and then I continued to say, “Because I’m bi.” My friends were so supportive and one of them even came out as pan to us. I’m so happy I told these amazing people, since yearbook class really is my safe place. (F/14/Bi)
Story #1762
When I came out to my friend, I didn’t really come out. We were just talking and we slowly discovered together our sexuality. I guess I needed someone to help me understand myself. Now I’m a lesbian and she’s bi. (F/18/Lesbian)
Story #1760
When I came out to my friend, I had been casually dropping hints for months. I never would have guessed that she was going through the exact same thing, and having her there to understand really lifted a weight off my shoulders. I told my best friend that I liked her and she treated me no different than before. I never thought she would be so understanding. (F/13)
Story #1759
When I came out it was to a girl I had just meet. We were avoiding having to do any actual exercise at P.E and I just blurted it out. It felt so good to get that off my chest and she gave me so much support. Telling some of my closer friends and mother was different, but I am so glad about the love I got from the real friends in my life. Coming out has really helped me embrace and love myself and others around me. (F/15/Pansexual)
Story #1757
When I came out it was to a small group of friends. One of my friends came out to us as bi, and I, without realising, just blurted out, “Oh yeah, me too.” They were really accepting and sweet, and me and my bi friend just talked about our crushes. I wish my parents will give the same reaction when I tell them in the near future. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #1753
When I came out it was one of the worst days of my life, not because my family didn’t accept me but a hour after telling them I got the worst call of my life. My best friend took his life. And his last request was that I come out to my school, and so I did. Bullies got worse, but I’m happy because I fulfilled his last request. (F/13/Bi)
Story #1752
When I came out I had already told my mom the week before. So we are in the car with my best friend and his dad and I’m talking to my mom about my grandmother (strictly Catholic) and how to tell her, and my friend’s dad was like, “Wait, are you coming out of the closet?” and I said, “Well, I’m bi so ya,” then he went, “OK cool and don’t tell your grandmother.” (F/14/Bi)