When I came out to my parents, I knew they wouldn’t have a problem with it, because they already knew that several of my friends were queer. When I went to the CSD in a city nearby (which they knew about), I picked up some flyers which explained my sexual orientation and generally different genders and orientations. The next time my parents and sister visited me, I gave them the flyers saying I realized we never really talked about my sexual orientation and it’s probably obvious, but in case they didn’t know yet, I’m asexual. My little sister took the opportunity to tell our parents that she isn’t straight either. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2313
When I came out for the first time, it was to some people from my year on a school trip. When some of us were talking in the evening, a boy jokingly asked what type of sex I prefer and I answered with “None, actually, considering that I’m asexual”. That was the first time I ever said my sexual orientation out aloud, as I never had to tell my friends because they simply knew. He was just like, “Duh, I know,” and we kept talking about some other stuff. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2312
When I came out as asexual to one of my closest friends, she stopped looked at me and said, “Ace sisters!” It made me so happy, especially since we always thought I was straight and she was an ally to the community. I’m going to tell my family at Christmas, will make more updates then!! (F/13/Asexual)
Story #2306
When I came out I had told some of my close friends first. They are part of the LGBTQ+ community, so they were very happy for me. I still have yet to tell my mom and dad. I hope they will be accepting for who I am. (F/15/Bi)
Story #2290
When I came out it was to my friends. We were just chilling when suddenly Friend 1 asked if we were straight (Friend 1 was). Friend 2 said she didn’t like anyone. When Friend 1 asked me, I just shook my head. She asked what I was and I said I was pan. Friend 1 didn’t know what that was and didn’t care, but Friend 2 asked what it meant and understood. All in all I think it went pretty well, even though neither friend talks about it. (F/11/Pansexual)
Story #2287
When I came out to my parents a few nights ago, I told my mom first and then she told my dad. My mom said she felt like I needed to get something off my chest. I told her I was bi. She gave me the biggest hug and asked me if she could tell my dad. When my dad found out, he said he was very proud of me. (F/14/Bi)
Story #2284
When I came out I remember feeling how much of that weight had been lifted, and how my emotional turmoil had been relieved. I was so happy, I couldn’t stop crying. Because I never thought I would be able to, but I did and I don’t need to worry anymore, the stress is gone, and that weight has been lifted. (F/15/He/they)
Story #2282
When I came out, it was the day after the last day of school. I had already told friends and stuff, but I posted a TikTok and told my grandma. She loves me unconditionally and has gotten me stuff to help. My brothers have been very understanding even after being so young. Their dad also supports me and told me to be me! My aunt said she is so proud of me!! And most importantly: my mom! She is currently in jail; I wrote her a letter telling her and she wrote me back basically telling me how proud she was and how she loved my name and it’s as beautiful as me. (F/14/Transgender)
Story #2277
When I came out to myself, it was a long process. I started having a crush on my female best friend and thought I was bi. I soon discovered pansexuality and clicked. I stayed in the closet for months before casually texting my very Christian friend that I didn’t know if I would marry a boy or a girl. We never discussed lqbtq things before so I didn’t want to include nonbinary people as well in case she didn’t know who they were. She hasn’t answered yet. If you want to come out, do it! There will always be people to support you. 🏳️🌈 (F/demigirl?/11/Pansexual/demisexual)
Story #2276
When I came out as gay, my mom gasped (it was over the phone) and dismissed it. When I halfway came out as trans, my mom and grandma degraded queer people in an attempt to change my mind. I have been told that my brother and sister (among other people) are not allowed to know. My mother told me today that my brother and sister are not allowed to listen to Lil Nas X or Jojo Siwa because he (Lil Nas X) is gay and she (Jojo Siwa) is pansexual, and my poor sister loved Jojo Siwa. My friends are super supportive, and save me every day from a world of sadness, but it hurts that my friends accept me more than my own mother, and I’m sorry for anyone who is in this situation or worse. (F/15/Gay/trans)