When I came out it was a very scary thing. Most of my friends accepted me, but a lot of people bullied me for it. They made joke about my pronouns and they deadnamed me on purpose. I found someone to talk to about it and it made me feel better. When I came out as bi to my parents it did not go well. My dad supported me but my mom was a different story. I hope one day she will see that this will never change!! ✨🏳️🌈✨ (Non-binary/15/Bisexual)
Story #2316
When I came out I made a game plan in case anything went wrong. I said that I would tell my best friend (who is a lesbian) the first time I could get her alone. I walk through the gates to the school and there she is. Alone. I ramble for maybe about five minutes before actually telling her and the first thing she says is, “That’s great, [insert name here]!” It felt so good. (F/13/Bisexual)
Story #2315
When I came out to my parents, I knew they wouldn’t have a problem with it, because they already knew that several of my friends were queer. When I went to the CSD in a city nearby (which they knew about), I picked up some flyers which explained my sexual orientation and generally different genders and orientations. The next time my parents and sister visited me, I gave them the flyers saying I realized we never really talked about my sexual orientation and it’s probably obvious, but in case they didn’t know yet, I’m asexual. My little sister took the opportunity to tell our parents that she isn’t straight either. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2314
When I came out as genderfluid to my friends, they were really supportive and chill about it. My mom kinda freaked out but in a good way, cause she asked me if she could do anything for me and was so sweet about it. (Genderfluid/Bisexual)
Story #2313
When I came out for the first time, it was to some people from my year on a school trip. When some of us were talking in the evening, a boy jokingly asked what type of sex I prefer and I answered with “None, actually, considering that I’m asexual”. That was the first time I ever said my sexual orientation out aloud, as I never had to tell my friends because they simply knew. He was just like, “Duh, I know,” and we kept talking about some other stuff. (F/19/Asexual)
Story #2312
When I came out as asexual to one of my closest friends, she stopped looked at me and said, “Ace sisters!” It made me so happy, especially since we always thought I was straight and she was an ally to the community. I’m going to tell my family at Christmas, will make more updates then!! (F/13/Asexual)
Story #2311
When I came out, I don’t think I entirely did it intentionally. Which, yes, in retrospect is absolutely hilarious. And at that point, I think my mom might have already known. I started out thinking that I was cis; as years went on, though, my views changed, and I thought I might be nonbinary. And then, I realized I prefer male pronouns, and wanted to be comfortable in my own body! One day, I was just in the car, and I just sort of said it to my mom. I don’t really have any preferred names right now, and she was a bit confused by that. I’m still on the road to figuring myself out, but it’s getting easier every day! Thank you for listening 🙂 (Male [FtM]/12/Bisexual)
Story #2310
When I came out it was hard. I came out to my friends first when I was fourteen. It was difficult and I only came out to my friends who were allies and I knew wouldn’t judge me. I still haven’t come out to my parents. They’re not accepting of the lgbtq+ at all and honestly I’m terrified of what going to happen. I know I’ll do it soon but it’s scary. I have some really supportive friends who have made my life easier. I know they’ll have my back and that makes me feel better when I think about it. (Genderfluid/18/Pansexual)
Story #2309
When I came out I wrote a message to share with close friends and family first via text while I was on vacation for a week. Soon after, I posted my message to facebook for everyone to see. It was easier for me to come out all at once than having to deal with coming out to each person in my life, plus doing it while I was away gave time for people to digest it before facing them. This way may not be right for everyone, but there was a ton of relief in pulling the band-aid off all at once, especially for someone like myself who isn’t the most emotionally forthcoming. I had some really great conversations with the people after I posted it, and have never felt better. (M/25)
Story #2308
When I came out to my friends as bi they were very supportive, but when I realized I was a lesbian they were even more supportive and sent me suggestions of tv shows with lesbian characters in them. My parents said they would love me no matter what and my mom bought me a book and my dad told me funny stories about dating girls. I haven’t come out to my class yet and I want to, but not right now. I’m really lucky to have such supportive people surrounding me. If you don’t have this: I love you, no matter what! ❤️️🧡💛💚💙🏳️🌈 (F/13/Lesbian)