When I came out I was in a gay bar with a gay friend from university, who I’d known for about three years, but I hadn’t talked to him about many personal things. The reason why only we two met that night was that he wanted to learn more about me personally, and so we started talking about many things. Then I didn’t know anything I should tell him and so he asked me, “I hope it’s not too personal, but what gender do you prefer in a relationship?” And so I told him that I like girls. And from that moment on we knew we had something important in common, and he will invite me when he goes to a gay party or in a gay club, and also he will play my wingman. (Non-binary/22/Lesbian)